He said he didnt love because he was not attracted to me and that he wants his freedom we have 3 kids

Attempts to recover only for a while, give her space, you must be patient to take care never ask anything about you as a couple but must be complemented as well as father and husband may be somewhat confused.-

you can't force anybody to love you. if he doesn't want to be with you, you can't make him. take your kids and give him what he wants. if you don't then you will just be miserable trying to force somebody to do something they don't want to do. you deserve better. you deserve somebody that is going to love you no matter what.

Stop letting him know that you still want him get dressed up in a way that would catch a mans eye and leave the house take the kids with you if you have to..... they want what they cant have.Start changing your rotine spend more time fixing your self up be happy when you play with the kids. Not exactly towards him in other words make him think that you have moved on.Trust in yourself! dont let it get you down

i bet you rue the day you married him! He is a waste of space. he cant say he isnt now attracted to you and wants his freedom.its grossly unfair. dont sweat over it just calmly open the front door and boot his sorry azz out

You shouldn't have to "make" your husband love you. He should already love you. He has a wife and three kids, he needs to grow up and be a devoted husband and father. U should sit down and talk to him about it. I'm sorry ur going through that. Goodluck.

Assuming you've let yourself go all to hell like so many wives do to show their husbands how grateful they are ,you might want to consider a gym membership .

Change yourself to the one that he love you before.